Best Interest

How will you ever be sure who really has your best interest at heart? Is there ever a time that its so evident that someone doesnt, or when it comes from someone so close that we ignore the situation for what it is, neglecting the truth behind the matter and just play on the strength and or longevity of the relationship. At some point there has to be a time when this is evaluated or atleast genuinely thought about. From another angle, why does it seem that the negative situations we encounter daily/weekly/monthly/yearly bring so much change (positive) change. Self evaluation, surveying your circle, yourself and immediate surroundings can only bring about a change, a refreshing newness that we begin to lose once we comfortably "settle" in. So, when you do find the "square", the odd ball out...etc how easy do we confront the situation, or better yet how do you confront it. When you realize that what was once "best" or *insert your own connotation here* for you, is no longer that, how do you fix it? .........when yall find out, let me know...quite frankly I'm struggling! Tryna find what's in my best interest